Planning an Event Without a Planner



Lately, I have designed several events in which a professional event planner was not present. I am sure that many people make the decision to nix the planner based on several factors, saving money being a primary motivator. While this is not a bad idea, there are some things that one should know about planning a major event without the assistance of a professional planner. I have compiled a list of things to consider regarding planning an event without a planner based on my experiences. So before you fire your planner, read on...
Who will Answer Vendor Questions on the Day of your Event?
I recently designed and decorated two events that did not have a planner. The events were a wedding and a quinceanera. As soon as I walked through the door of the venue of each event, I knew immediately that there was not a planner present to provide assistance. How did I know you ask? Well for one, when I, along with the other vendors, arrived there was no one present to provide instructions or answer questions. The musician did not have a current program or schedule of events and the cake baker did not know which table was being used for the cake table. The DJ was still trying to determine how to pronounce the names of some of the bridal party members with no assistance. These things may seem small but can make a major difference if your aim is to plan a seamless event.

Who will be your Representative on the Day of the Event?
Whether you are the bride or groom, or the host of a major party, or a parent throwing your child's right of passage celebration, you will most likely want to enjoy the event that you have put a lot of time and energy into organizing. If you are planning to transition from being the planner to being a guest at the event and want enjoy the festivities, then you may want to consider who will represent you during the event. Someone will be needed to communicate your wants and desires during the event to the vendors and venue staff. Your guests and vendors may have questions during the event, who should they speak with on your behalf? The person delegated to be your representative will make decisions for you while you enjoy the event. They will pick up the ball if something goes wrong. They will also assure that the event follows the pre planned timeline and goes according to schedule. Delegating a representative to act on your behalf will not only relieve a lot of stress but also allow you to mix and mingle with your guests with no worries.

Who will Handle the Details?
There are so many minute details involved in planning a major event. There are so many bases that you want to assure are covered. For the quinceanera that I designed, the parents called me, the decorator, to ask questions about everything from how will the guests know when to sit down for dinner to how should the cake cutting be handled. They even called me as my staff and I were setting up to tell me that the photographer had a flat tire on the way to the event and asked me what should they do. These are questions that are typically handled by a planner not a decorator/designer and unfortunately for these particular events I was hired to simply design. However the planner in me felt compelled to assist as each client seemed to be in a lurch.
You may want to do as much research as you can on event planning to find out what it entails before taking on such a task. Also think ahead about all the things involved to assure that all bases are covered.

Planning without a planner is not impossible but there is a lot to consider. I hope this article helps you to think about the details so that regardless of the direction you choose to take in planning, your event will be well organized and all that you imagined.

Eggplant Weddings

Eggplant is a very popular color for wedding decor for 2010. Check out the following ideas for eggplant colored weddings.

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Pink Wedding Details

There isn't any other color out there that is as much fun as pink. Each shade comes with its own set of characteristics that are sure to make a splash at any wedding. Check out some pink ideas for your wedding:

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Wedding Music Planning

Ever attended a wedding and the music put you to sleep or didn't seem to make sense? That is because the couple did not consider how important music is to the event. The music sets the tone for the wedding. As you are planning your wedding it is important to keep in mind that the music you select dictates each portion of your event. For example, the music played at your processional may be very different from the tunes played at the cocktail hour. You can leave the music selection up to your DJ and musicians or take control of it yourself. Here are several spreadsheets that you can use as you plan your music for your big day. It also has examples of selections for each genre that have been a hit at weddings.

Pop/Rock Wedding Music Planner
http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/6/6/8/5/668530/uploads/Wedding_Song_Spreadsheet_Pop.Rock.xls
R and B Wedding Music Planner
http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/6/6/8/5/668530/uploads/Wedding.Song.Spreadsheet.Rap.R_B.xls
Christian/Gospel Music Planner
http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/6/6/8/5/668530/uploads/Wedding_Song_Spreadsheet_Gospel.Christian.xls

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Murder Mystery Party: Your Next Big Event




As you are planning your next big event you may be thinking, "I'm tired of the same old thing, I want an event that will provide a unique experience for my guests." If so, then you must consider a murder mystery party for your next big event.
A murder mystery party is a great fit for anyone that wants a lively, fun party that guests will truly enjoy. Perfect for any party size, murder mystery parties are great for fundraisers, corporate events and dinner parties. Murder mystery parties come in two different forms: box games or live games.

The boxed games are great for smaller parties. This is typically held in a dinner party atmosphere. The game comes with rules in which guests can easily follow as they act as the players. Some boxed games provide scripts which the players must follow. Others allow you to create your own script as you play the game.

Live games are typically produced by murder mystery production companies. It involves actors that will join you at your party with the plot ready to for delivery. The format allows your guests to feel apart of the show and encourages them to mix and mingle. Live murder mystery games can be held almost anywhere and in some instances, your guests get to dress up in cloths from another time period or country.
Murder mystery parties are tons of fun and are a great break from the typical dinner party or corporate function. A murder mystery party will also assure your party is an enjoyable event for all.

Check Lists to Help you Organize Your Wedding Day






So you are getting married and you have all of these things that you need to do and purchase for your wedding. Your biggest fear? Leaving the favors that you have paid so much money for at home or providing the limo service with the wrong times for pick up. Well, worry no more! We have created several check lists to help you organize the items needed for the event and keep you on schedule. You may also use these as templates as you create your own. You can share these with your photographer, coordinator and other vendors so you are all on track. I hope these are helpful at minimizing the stress as they keep you on task.

Reception Items Checklist
http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/6/6/8/5/668530/uploads/Reception_Items_Checklist.pdf

Ceremony Items Checklist

http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/6/6/8/5/668530/uploads/Ceremony_Items_Checklist.pdf

Day of Timeline:
http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/6/6/8/5/668530/uploads/Sample_Day_of_Timeline.pdf




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Dressing Up Your Chairs









When planning your wedding you may fall in love with the your venue for its size, ambiance, location and spacious floor plans but you may have one problem; the chairs. Many facilities have outdated chairs in their ballroom or you may find that the color of the chairs clash with your wedding colors. The solution is simple: dress up those chairs! There are many ways to dress up your chairs from chivari chairs to chair covers. Each will add something unique to your space and change the look and feel of your venue.




1. Chair Covers- These are great way to not only hide the unattractive chairs of your current facility but also to add a classy new look to your venue. Chair covers have the power to drastically change your venue and have been known to leave guests in awe. Chair covers fit most banquet style chairs and they, along with the sashes, come in a variety of colors that can help to bring out your color scheme. They are easy to put on and relatively inexpensive.



2. Chivari Chairs- Get rid of your venue's chairs all together and add chivari chairs. Elegant and sophisticated describes the chivari chair. Made of wood or steel with a padded seat, they can hold their own in style or can be dressed up with a sash. This is the most expensive chair starting at $6 per chair.



3. Folding chairs- Folding chairs are perfect for an outdoor celebration. Folding chairs provide a clean and simple look for an event. Typically found in white, brown or black, folding chairs are the least expensive costing as low as $1 per chair.



To determine which chair would be a fit for your celebration, consider the style of your wedding and the look that you are aiming to achieve. They each will have different effect but will provadd the final touch needed for your decor.










Best of the Best Wine Tasting Events


A favorite summer/fall indulgence of many are wine festivals. Unlike other events, wine festivals allow opportunities to enjoy the warm season, try new foods and more importantly sample delicious wines. If you have not had a chance to participate in one as of yet, here are several great wine events across the nation:

Kerrville Wine and Music Festival, Kerrville, Texas Sept 4-6: The Kerrville Wine and Music Festival is one of the largest wine festivals in Texas. Each labor day weekend, wine and music lovers gather at the Quiet Valley Ranch in the Texas hill country to celebrate the art of songwriting and winemaking. The festival features the newest and best wines that Texas has to offer in addition to performances by dozens of the world’s best songwriters. For details visit kerrvillefolkfestival.com

Euphoria, Greenvill, SC Sept. 18-2: Wine seminars, live jazz music and hor' dourves created by some of South Carolina's renowned chefs is what you will get at the Euphoria wine event. This amazing event is a true example of "southern class" as you will tour local wineries and relax with friendly people: http://www.euphoriagreenville.com/

Catalina Wine Tasting, CatalinaIsland, CA Sept. 26: For the eleventh year, the Orange County Wine Society will be hosting the Catalina Island Wine Tasting sponsored by the Catalina Island Women’s Forum. This event will feature hand passed appetizers, live music, a silent auction and wines from a variety of wineries. In addition, this event supports a great cause. All proceeds from the event will go towards the support of victims of domestic violence, the Woman’s Wellness Program, student mentoring, and scholarship programs. The tasting will be held in the Courtyard of the Pavilion Hotel, located in downtown Avalon on Crescent Street: http://www.ocws.org/newsletters/catalina.htm

Wine Fest on the Beach, Ocean City, MD Oct 2&3: Wine Fest on the Beach is the Delmar Beach areas major annual wine celebration. It features some of the best wineries and breweries in the US. It also has samples of the best of the Delmar areas local cuisines and an arts and crafts show: http://www.winefest.com/

Harvest on the Harbor Portland, Maine, October 22-24: Maine's premier food and wine experience. A culinary mecca, Portland proves the perfect locale for a weekend with top chefs and international wines. The festival will offer tastings, seminars, and dinners featuring local cuisines. Highlights include tastings with caviar retailer Browne Trading Company, the "seafood supplier to the stars." Festivities conclude with a gala dinner by master chef David Pasternack: harvestontheharbor.com.

Centerpiece Ideas under $20 each


Centerpieces are typically a major accent of a reception, gala or party. Centerpieces add to the ambiance and provide personality to an event. In today's market, centerpieces can be quite pricey ranging from $50 to $1,000 each. However, you do not have to break the bank to have beautiful centerpieces. Here are several centerpiece ideas that can give your event the look you want and save you $$$ as well:

1. Candles, Candles Candles: Nothing sets a romantic mood quite the way candles do. They add a tranquil and romantic ambiance to an event. They are also easy to use and come in a variety of shapes, colors and sizes such as floating candles and tea lights. To make them more visually appealing, add mirrors, glass, petals, and colored water to the arrangement. More importantly candles are inexpensive to purchase and can be found anywhere. Use a set of candles to spice up your tables for your next event.

2. Silk flowers vs. Fresh Flowers: Typically when people think of centerpieces they automatically think of an arrangement of fresh flowers. Silk flowers, however, have made a huge comeback in a very big way. Nowadays, silk flowers look and feel as authentic and appealing as fresh flowers. More importantly, silk florals are less expensive as fresh and can be manipulated in many different ways. Try an arrangement of silk flowers to get the same look as fresh with less costs.

3. Downgrade the Fresh flowers: If you are truly committed to purchasing fresh flowers, there are a few tricks to help reduce the costs. You can use a smaller amount in each arrangement. This means less flowers you have to purchase. Also try to use less expensive flowers. Tulips and coronations tend to be less expensive than roses. You may also notice that you can find better buys from warehouse stores such as Costco verses a florist.

4. Use your Creativity: Centerpieces do not always have to be in the form of flowers or candles. Think about ways that you can incorporate your theme in your centerpieces. For example, if you are having your event at a winery you may want to make a display of a nice bottle of wine, grapes and a cork screw for each table. If you are having an event in the fall you may want to use fall colored leaves, a pumpkin and/or pine cones for your arrangement. Tropical fish, coffee beans and Tiffany's boxes are also making huge statements as centerpieces nowadays.
You can get the look you want without breaking the bank. Do some research and find what works for you and your event.

Throw Your Next Party, Wedding or Special Event in Vegas!!

There is no other place that says party like Las Vegas. Not only does it have a festive atmosphere but it also has many different venue options for your special event. Whether you are planning a corporate retreat, wedding, launch party, bachelor/bachelorette party, or a family gathering, Las Vegas has something for everyone. Here are a few Las Vegas venues that you may want to consider for your next big event:


Hard Rock Hotel & Casino- A favorite of many celebrities and notables, the Hard Rock is a very stylish and sleek hotel with several large meeting rooms and ballrooms to fit any budget. The meeting rooms can be customized to meet your needs whether it's for a dinner party, wedding, or corporate function. Features of the ballrooms include looming balconies and large pillars. Some meeting rooms also offer large theatre seating with state of the art audio visual monitors and equipment.
One of the many unique features of this property is the pool area that is open to guests of the hotel but can also be rented for parties and special events. The pool is a combination of fun and relaxation. It is spaciously adorned with carribean blue water and real sand to give you the "feel" of relaxing on the beach. It also has several bars and swim up black jack tables. The pool also has tahitian style cabanas equipped with Plasma televisions for those that want a private oasis.


The sleeping rooms and suites at the Hard Rock are contemporary stylish and comfortable. They include a wet bar, marble bath and a some of even have a pool table. With a spa, several on site restaurants and fabulous nightly entertainment, the Hard Rock is a favorite amongst many.




Red Rock Casino Spa and Retreat: Looking for a relaxing retreat for your event? Red Rock Casino may be your answer. Surrounded by the mountains, Red Rock Casino has won many awards and although luxurious in style, its rates are as low as $75 per night. The key features of this resort are a three acre pool and an exotic island that can both be used by guests and rented for events. Sleeping rooms are also a plus for this hotel because each room is immaculately decorated and filled with beautiful views of the mountains from large windows. Each room is spacious and adorned with plush linens and comfortable pillows. The rooms also have plasma tvs and ipod jacks.
The spa is amazing and appears to float on water. It features manicures, pedicures, make up lessons, facials, treatments and a relaxing Thai massage.
The Red Rock also has various activities. Equipped with a state of the art bowling alley, Red Rock also offers other activities such as kayaking and indoor rock climbing.
Red Rock has many packages to choose from at very reasonable rates. Some packages include services at the spa and transportation to and from the airport via limousine service. Red Rock is a truly relaxing destination with many enjoyable pleasures.


Mandalay Bay Hotel and Casino: Picture a beach in the heart of the Las Vegas strip. What you are picturing is the Mandalay Bay Hotel and Casino which features an 11 acre beach simulation filled with several gallons of real sand, cabanas and a casino right on the beach.
The hotel was voted a Las Vegas premiere pool experience by trip advisor.
For your special event, Mandalay Bay also has several meeting rooms and ballrooms with gorgeous high ceilings and pillars that can accommodate up to 4000 guests with many varying options. Mandalay also has several rooms that can accommodate up to 75 breakouts simultaneously. They also offer a full service event staff that caters to every detail of your event from photography to audio visual to flowers and decor.
Other features of the hotel includes a spa, 3 restaurants and on site shopping.


The Stratosphere: Throw your next event on the 13th floor of this award winning facility. The Stratosphere is one of Las Vegas' most popular hotels/restaurants. With great food and a great view, the Stratosphere offers many ways to make your event spectacular.
Chapel in the Clouds: The Stratosphere offers the Chapel in the Clouds for couples to exchange their vows. This wedding venue was voted Theknot.com's pick of the year. It sits 8 feet above the Las Vegas strip with breathtaking views of the strip. It also offers a thrill roller coaster ride for the couple that wants to have an adventure on their wedding day. The Chapel in the Clouds also offers a wedding video on the internet in real time for family that can not travel for the event


Paymon's Mediterranean Restaurant and Lounge: A quaint restaurant with excellent cuisine describes Paymon's Mediterranean Restaurant. Owned by the Rauof brothers, this restaurant offers three different private rooms to choose from for an event. Each room has an old world feel that can be decorated to meet your needs.
The fantastic cuisine features Greek, Persian and Middle Eastern favorites. The restaurant also has delicious vegetarian entrees. Paymon's may be a great selection for your party especially since they never charge a rental fee. There is no charge for facility rentals at Paymon's. A reasonable price and great food makes this a one of a kind venue.


Each of these ward winning facilities offers the attractiveness and excitement of Las Vegas at a reasonable priced. Hosting your event at one of the above locations will not only assure that your event is a smash but also a memorable occasion for years to come.